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HOSTING THE ONEG – Instructions to Guide You

 

Thank you in advance for hosting the Oneg!  Oneg receptions have become an integral part of how we build our Kol Haverim sense of community and as a host; you are helping us do this.  It is not designed to be a difficult process at all, and we have created these detailed guidelines so that you know exactly what to expect, and you can participate in an easy way.

If you are unable to help out on the assigned date, please switch dates with another family.  The phone numbers and emails are all included on the schedule.

The Board Representative Is Your Partner and Guide

Your co-hosting family/families are your partners, and your Board Representative is your guide before, during, and after the service to help you host the Oneg.  He or she will contact you to remind you of your date a month before and be in touch as needed as the date approaches.  He or she will be your resource for questions then, as well as the Oneg evening, and will assist you in carrying out your role as Oneg host.

 

Coordinating - About 2 Weeks Prior to the Oneg

 

By now your Board Representative will have contacted you and if not, feel free to call him or her.  They are the one to get information from the temple on potential contributors to the Oneg, so that you and the other Oneg host know who else might be contributing to the Oneg, and the approximate number of attendees.  Your Board Representative will confirm information about any B’nai Mitzvah family, or other life event family, as it is customary that they take part in Friday’s Shabbat Service and assist in the Oneg in honor of their family.  Although families celebrating life events often bring food and drink, they’re not expected to set-up nor clean-up.  And, unless you hear differently due to an event, an average number of people on any Friday night service is 20-25, and that is the number we suggest you use when planning what to bring for the Oneg.

 

What to Bring

 

Along with others that might be helping to host the Oneg, we are asking that you collectively provide the food and beverages for Oneg reception.  (“Beverages” are juice, soda, or cider, and does not include coffee or tea.)  We do ask that you bring cream for the coffee.

Please provide a challah.  The Preschool does not provide it as they did in the past.

Any combination of the suggested food items below tends to work great.  The collective result is typically a mini-spread so that there is handful of tasty choices for all to enjoy.

We know that you are busy, so please do not feel that the “goodies” always need to be home-baked.  The importance of the refreshments is that they are thoughtful and presented in a way that extends the warmth of our Shabbat services.  We have learned that when we plan Oneg receptions this way, people like to linger with each other to partake and connect as part of the whole Shabbat experience.  As for exactly what food you’ll bring, you and your other host family can plan what suits each of you the best.

Choices to Consider:

  • Mini muffins, cupcakes or full-size of the same
  • Coffee cakes or other pastries, varieties of cookies or bars
  • Fruits – fresh fruit salad, melons, or merely grapes and/or berries
  • Cheese and cracker plates
  • Dips or Hummus and pita/crackers

Whether you are baking or buying, the best bet is to plan a “dairy” spread.  This includes all fruits, pastries, cheeses, etc.—and no meat products.  We tend to avoid nuts due to any allergies.  If there is any question at all, ask your Board Representative.

 

Your Own Touch:

Oneg hosts often enjoy adding special touches of their own to present a homey feeling.  Flowers or candles on the table can add a little extra to make it all the more festive.  Sometimes your personal touch is merely the care you take to lay-out what you have brought.  In the end, it is really your choice, and your way.  We don’t want to prescribe what you do, as we appreciate whatever you want to do.  Also, hosting the Oneg does not need to break the bank.  By sharing the role with each other, it can be easily done in a nice and yet cost-efficient way.

 

What the Synagogue Has

 

The synagogue provides all: paper goods, decaffeinated coffee, tea, wine, platters, bowls, and creamers.  Vases and doilies for platters are there should you need them.  Tablecloths are in bins under the table in the kitchen.  The synagogue also has plastic ware for eating and silver spoons, cake cutters, etc. for serving.  

 

The Evening of the Service and Oneg

 

Arriving and Leaving:

Services begin at 7:30 p.m., please arrive at 7:00 p.m. to help set-up.  The Board Representative will be there to open the building, help you set-up and remain to assist with clean-up and to lock up the building.

Setting Up:

Everything you need is in the kitchen, easily located, and clearly marked.  (If you notice that we’re low on a supply, please make a note of it and leave it in Chris’ office mailbox.)

Cleaning Up:

It is your joint responsibility to clean up.  Please wash and dry all items used putting them away where you found them.  Please do not leave them out to dry.  Please take home any leftover food and beverage.  In this way, every subsequent family will easily be able to prepare the OnegWe appreciate that someone commit to taking the table cloths home to wash them, and to return them by no later than the following Wednesday.

We hope this opportunity helps you to meet other families of Kol Haverim and to reconnect with old friends!

 

Oneg Family Dates 2018
 
Below is a listing of upcoming Oneg hosts and the Board reps for upcoming dates. If you cannot make your assigned date, you may try to "swap" with another family assigned for a future time by contacting them. Please notify us if you change date so we can update this listing (send Email to webmaster@kolhaverim.org).
 
Date Board Rep Board Rep Email Oneg Host Oneg Host Email
7-Sep-18 Allison Kaufman Vp-education@kolhverim.org x  
      x  
14-Sep-18 Phil Manaker Treasurer@kolhaverim.org Eric & Kate Schweitzer katemschweitzer@sbcglobal.net
      Addison Kramer/ Dan Sheldon addipres2@msn.com
21-Sep-18 Marla Perlstein secretary@kolhaverim.org David and Michele Souder msouder@gmail.com
      Glen and Lara Steckler laraglenn@gmail.com
28-Sep-18 Rachelle Blume drblume@yahoo.com Lisa Tatum ltatum86@yahoo.com
      Jeff & Robin Walden robwalden@cox.net
5-Oct-18 Lauren  Barbara sn10617@att.net x  
      x  
12-Oct-18 Marty Kluger martinkluger@cox.net Paul and Barbara Zimmerman pzimmerman@cox.net
      Lee & Lauren Berger lmsberger@gmail.com
19-Oct-18 Steve Weiner stevew@pbmgltd.com Steve Blau & Karen Chorney sblau164@yahoo.com
      Jim & Shari Bosco shari.bosco2@gmail.com
26-Oct-18 Andrew Feller andrewlfeller@hotmail.com Mike & Margaret Braddon mmmbraddon@cox.net
      Howie & Beth Breinan bbreinan@gmail.com
2-Nov-18 Tim Lawrence vice-president@kolhaverim.org x  
      x  
9-Nov-18 Judy Kulick past.president@kolhaverim.org Ed & Vivien Chale medwardchale@gmail.com
      Karel & Tiffany Citroen tiffany.citroen@sbcglobal.net
16-Nov-18 Brian Durkin brian.durkin@rrd.com Dean & Staci Coelho stacicoelho@me.com
      Jason & Rachel Cohen Rachel@communitycamps.com
23-Nov-18 Marty Kluger martinkluger@cox.net Wally Cohen & Deborah Eisenberg wmc.dre@frontier.com
      Raf & Patty Cohen cohenrz@yahoo.com
30-Nov-18 Shawna Gale vp-cong-relation@kolhaverim.org Michael & Janice Cooper jgcooper567@gmail.com
      Douglas Corpuel & Stephanie Pearlman spearlman1@aol.com
7-Dec-18 Judy Kulick past.president@kolhaverim.org x  
      x  
14-Dec-18 Marji Finkel marjifinkel@gmail.com Al & Geri Denyer thedenyers@comcast.net
      Jonatoan & Ellen Dougherty EllTop@aol.com
21-Dec-18 Harriet Cutler cutlerbass@aol.com Laney Ducharme elaine.ducharme@yahoo.com
      Charlene Durham ccbbdurham@sbcglobal.net
28-Dec-18 Len Kaplan president@kolhaverim.org ken & Arlene Dworetsky APD4155@aol.com
      Erika Dworkin edwo+A1:E35rkin@cthealthshop.com
 
Wed, October 17 2018 8 Cheshvan 5779